Frost is a prominent designer/decorator who set up the Aids Ark charity with his partner Jeremy Norman, the man who set up the Embassy Club and Heaven. They met in the 1980s, when AIDS began to cut terrible swathes through the gay community and when an HIV diagnosis was equivalent to a death sentence – a stigmatised one at that.  This a powerful and inspiring memoir  of that era and of their life together since, of loss, survival,  and love.